Twenty-one foreign children recovering from heart surgery in the Tel Aviv suburb of Holon slept in a bomb shelter last week—just like thousands of Israelis—as air-raid sirens warned of incoming missiles from Gaza.
Some of the children, and their mothers, are Gazan Palestinians.
That’s par for the course at Save a Child’s Heart (SACH), a voluntary organization that has provided lifesaving medical care to nearly 6,000 children from 62 countries since 1995.
More than 30 children are now in Israel from Tanzania, Zanzibar, Zambia, Kenya, Uganda, Kosovo, the West Bank and Gaza, according to SACH deputy director Tamar Shapira.
Normally, those from Gaza and Palestinian Authority territories can go directly home to recuperate under the care of medical staff trained by SACH.
But these are not normal times.
Since May 10, thousands of missiles have been launched into Israel from Gaza, causing death and destruction. The borders are closed.
Three Gazan kids are staying in the children’s house—one infant, one 12 months old and another 6 years old. Two are accompanied by their mothers and the other by a grandmother. Six more Gazan children are still in the hospital.
‘Ramadan was much more powerful’
The past week didn’t only mark another round of attacks from Gaza. It also marked the end of Ramadan, a month of fasting, prayer and charity on the Muslim calendar.
The Gazans joined other Muslim families at the SACH children’s home—a 14-year-old from Kosovo and a 1-year-old and 6-year-old from Zanzibar, with their mothers—in nightly break-fasts and the Eid al-Fitr feast capping the final day of Ramadan (May 12).
“Ramadan, like all other religious holidays, is always very special in the SACH family of patients, staff and volunteers,” said Shapira.
“We try to create a warm, supportive environment for everyone to continue their religious life as much as possible here. If a Christian wants to go to church on Sunday, or a Muslim wants to go to a mosque on Friday, we try to make it happen. We always have Palestinians who come with small prayer rugs,” she said.
“But this year, Ramadan was much more powerful. Having everyone together in the children’s home from three Muslim countries, including Gaza, was unique,” she added.
‘This is your family while you’re in Israel’
“We found out early in Save a Child’s Heart’s history that if you want a child to feel at home, he needs to eat what he’s used to,” said Shapira.
“We give the mothers fresh ingredients and each cooks their traditional food. Some mothers cook with babies on their backs. There is always an exotic mix of smells and tastes coming out of our kitchen.”
No matter how many distinct cuisines are prepared on a given day at SACH’s children’s house, all children and caregivers eat together like a family, says Laura Kafif, a native of Northern Ireland who has supervised the children’s house for the past 20 years.
“I try to communicate to everybody here, regardless of language, religion and nationality, that this is your family while you’re here in Israel. Everyone is here to help the children recover and go home healthy,” said Kafif.
During Ramadan, the mothers from Zambia, Kenya and Tanzania prepared food for the Muslim children in place of mothers who were fasting until sunset.
“Our team of professionals and volunteers at SACH has Christians, Jews and Muslims,” Shapira pointed out.
“We have a Muslim employee in the children’s home and another in the hospital program who were also observing Ramadan. Like many Israeli hospitals, Wolfson has many Muslim nurses, doctors and other staff members treating all children no matter what.”
Keeping the kids calm under fire
This is hardly the first time Kafif has had to manage the SACH children’s house under challenging conditions.
Her primary aim is maintaining a calm atmosphere and the predictable daily routine of medical checkups, play with volunteers, communal meals and other activities.
“With [the] corona [pandemic] ending, we were getting back to some sort of normality, and we went from that to this,” said Kafif, referring to the missiles.
“I try not to show any worry or stress because it will make the nurses and mothers worry as well. I try to explain what they will experience, but most of these children don’t have sirens and bomb shelters at home,” she added.
“Our staff works hard to make sure everybody is okay. It’s difficult for them. The mothers from Gaza are concerned about their families there.”
The first two nights of the conflict, everyone slept in the building’s shelter as Holon was in the line of fire. On May 11, a rocket crashed into a bus in the city, wounding two adults and a 5-year-old girl.
It’s been mostly quiet since then.
“At the moment, the patients from Gaza can’t go home,” said Kafif. “Let’s hope it comes to an end soon and everyone is able to go about their daily lives.”
Added Shapira: “It’s an extremely difficult and sad situation. We need to continue doing what we do and remember that unity is our most important power. Together, we can overcome everything and continue doing good in this world.”
This article was first published by Israel21c.